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The Era Of Perfect

The Era Of Perfect

How do you answer the perennial interview question: what do you think your weaknesses are?

 

One of the most evasive answers people offer is: oh, I’m a perfectionist; I can’t help myself. For which read: actually, I don’t think I have any weaknesses other than trying to be the best at everything. And yet the evidence suggests that true perfectionists are insecure, unable to celebrate success and at higher risk of burnout than others.


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Those We Love But See No Longer

Those We Love But See No Longer

Bereavement comes to us all, eventually, but

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Jesus And The Age Of Radical Uncertainty

Jesus And The Age Of Radical Uncertainty

It is hard to get our heads round just how polarising a

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On Being Authentic - Sort Of

On Being Authentic - Sort Of

Someone recently described me as authentic, which I took to be a compliment because it sounds good even though I’m not sure what it means.

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Becoming What You Are

Becoming What You Are

Its funny how when we’re asked to tell the truth about ourselves, it makes us shift in our seats. Tell the

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Ghosting 2022

Ghosting 2022

Allowing for the fact the past year will have been amazing for some of us (births, weddings, jobs –

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The Charge

The Charge

You’ve probably all studied liminality, which is one of the most Anglican words ever, and now you’re living

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The Bubble first published Feb 2011

The Bubble
We live in a little personal bubble in the busyness of urban life and need God to pop it to see what he has in store for us outside

One advert that makes me smile is the cosmetics pitch to 'get the London look'. In this case the London look is Kate Moss after three hours in makeup. In my experience, the London look is a pasty and puffy white face, nicely set off by black bags around bloodshot eyes. There is another dimension to the London look too: the vacant look gaze which is fixed in the middle distance. It tells everyone around that they are not relevant because whatever is in your mind is not here but somewhere else. Mobiles, blackberries and the iPod touch -- among others -- enable us to keep our focus other than where we are, ensuring that those demands, which would have waited for us in the recent past, are now brought right into the present, squeezing our attention. It is like a perverse form of eschatology, where the future is brought into the present to transform our experience of it, only for the worse and not for the better.. - Read More

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Most of the ways in which we provide guidance, training and support for discipleship is predicated on having time and energy to think and pray.
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What do we make of the road not taken? The romance that does not lead to marriage; the job we don’t get; the house that falls through; the career that doesn’t materialise.
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