The three most common requests by people planning their own funeral are to be cremated with their pet’s ashes; to have a mobile phone in the coffin; and for someone to ensure that they are dead
The latter two requests reveal one of our deepest fears: that we will be buried alive – a phobia which is part of a larger anxiety over the grave as human destiny

95 per cent of filed documents remain filed for ever
How much space could we create in our lives if we acted on this?  The figure is emblematic of a litigious and bureaucratic era in which hording becomes a virtue not a vice

41 per cent of British people stay at home every evening of the week
And yet many people say they have no time to volunteer for causes

Einstein did not learn to read until he was ten
Chill out, pushy parents

Most babies in Britain are conceived without the conscious consent of the father
Helping fathers embrace parental responsibility surely starts before conception with an honest and trusting covenant

Just 3.5 per cent of British people believe they are in the top income quartile; 47 per cent believe they are in the bottom
It is human nature to compare ourselves unfavourably with those we think are better off than we are rather than to compare ourselves favourably with those we think are less well off.  Wealth is a powerfully deceptive and unsettling force

Just 1.4 per cent of Iran’s population attend Friday prayers
This turns Anglican religious observance into revolutionary fervour by comparison…

The number of armed conflicts in the world has declined by more than 40 per cent since 1992
The pessimistic assumption we make from absorbing modern media is that everything is getting so much worse when there is clearly much to give thanks for

80 per cent of British fathers think of Christmas as a ‘relaxing holiday break’; only 35 per cent of mothers share this view
Enough said